Sunday, November 09, 2008

Woman lived with three dead siblings

Neighbours knew 90-year-old Margaret Bernstorff's Evanston home was a mess, cluttered with old furniture and stacks of yellowing newspapers. But no one imagined that inside the colourful Victorian-era home on Judson Avenue were the decayed bodies of three siblings, one of whom died in the 1970s and another of whom died about six months ago.

The Cook County medical examiner's office confirmed yesterday that the dead included Bernstorff's sister Anita, who died in May at age 98; her brother, Frank, who died in 2003 at age 83; and another sister, Elaine, who died in her 60s sometime in the late 1970s. The bodies, some covered with blankets, were found on Friday in different rooms of the home.

It was determined that all three died of natural causes and police have not charged anyone with a crime. Bernstorff was unavailable for comment and has been placed in a senior care facility.


Photo from here.

As investigators continued to gather information from the home, police and neighbours were left to wonder how a woman could apparently live for years inside a home with the decaying remains of family members.

"I'm shocked. I think we're all shocked," said Allan Redmond, an Evanston contractor who had become friendly with Margaret Bernstorff after doing repairs on her home. "A few weeks ago I asked her about her sister [Anita] because it had been a long time since I'd seen her. She said that her sister was sick and upstairs, but I couldn't have imagined something like this."

Some neighbours knew Margaret Bernstorff had once lived with relatives. But it had been years since anyone had seen her brother and months since they had seen or spoken with Anita, Redmond said. Given the horrid conditions inside her home, many were concerned that Margaret could no longer care for herself. Some neighbours occasionally checked in on Bernstorff, bringing food and groceries the woman didn't always warmly accept. "She could be stubborn and she didn't take help a lot of the time," Redmond said.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Margaret was a wonderful woman. This article depicts her in a very negative and clearly ignorant manner. As one of her neighbors, I can say that she did politely accept help from us. Although the story is difficult to understand for most people,we were not afraid of the situation, nor were many of us who actually knew her "shocked" as Allan Redmond says (who by the way I didn't even knew lived on the block). Margaret was a very private woman and I only became close to her after she moved to her nursing home. However, I can say that she was a very kind a gentle woman, not the psycho old lady that this article makes her out to be. In our neighborhood we did not fear her, that is only an assumption made by outsiders or those looking to write a "creepy article". Rest in Peace Margaret you will be missed.