Saturday, June 22, 2013

Mother delighted as controversial class photo is retaken to include disabled boy - Update

Anne Belanger shed many tears this week, overwhelmed by the public support she got after speaking out about an insensitive class photo that showed her young son in his wheelchair separated from his classmates. But now, the New Westminster mother finally had reason to smile when she saw the retaken class photo. “It’s gorgeous,” she said. “It’s a really nice shot.” In the new photo, Miles Ambridge flashes his million-watt smile as he sits on a bench, supported by his caregiver in the front row, alongside his Grade 2 classmates at Herbert Spencer Elementary in  New Westminster, British Columbia, Canada.



Miles has spinal muscular atrophy, a genetic disease that causes his muscles to weaken. The seven-year-old, who has never walked, was diagnosed with the disease at 13 months. It does not affect cognitive abilities. Aside from his signature smile, Miles is barely recognizable from the previous class photo. In the original photo, which his father described as humiliating for his son, Miles sat in his wheelchair excluded from the rest of his classmates by an obvious gap. Despite being separated from his friends, the young boy beamed for the camera, leaning as far to the side as possible to get closer to his peers.

When she first saw the retaken photo, which has been given to the entire class, Belanger said she didn’t immediately notice her son without his bright, fire-engine-red wheelchair. “You can’t pick him out this time,” she said. “For him, to fit in, this is what it should be.” Some critics have pointed out that taking Miles out of his wheelchair to include him in the class photo sends the wrong message. But his father, Don Ambridge, who came up with the idea, defended his decision. He argued that Miles is not limited to his wheelchair and often sits on the couch or his bed when he’s home. “All you’ve got to do is look at the kid sitting on the bench with a grin on his face and that’s why we do it,” said Ambridge. “He’s a happy little guy.”



Both parents said they are stunned and deeply moved by the outpouring of support from complete strangers. Belanger thinks it was Miles’s smile in the photo that struck a chord with so many. “He’s just so happy,” she said. “And that’s the thing — he’s oblivious to the whole thing but he’s so happy and he wants to fit in.” Miles was never shown the original photo, and is still oblivious to all the attention he is getting. Belanger said she has kept copies of both class photos in case he wants to see it when he’s older. On Tuesday evening, Belanger showed him the new photo. His reaction? “Oh, mommy! This is so nice.” Instead of crying, Belanger said she just beamed with pride.

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5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Nice one, can't believe that first photo. What a difference a little bit of thought going into it makes....

Miss Cellania said...

Agreed! Much better. And then look at the other differences. They background is not cleaned up in the second picture, so they have a poster with the school's name hanging behind. They didn't dress up for "picture day" the second time around, and the kids are wearing what they would normally wear (blue jeans). Altogether more like real life.

But look at the front row girl, second from left. She's wearing the same panda shirt as in the first picture!

arbroath said...

Well spotted with the panda shirt Miss C!

I hadn't noticed that.

Gareth said...

So the school's lame excuses the first time around and those who supported the school posting on this very site have been proved wrong.

It wasn't at all difficult to achieve was it?

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